Revised Version
Description of Measure: A 36-item measure of adult attachment style. The ECR-R measures individuals on two subscales of attachment: Avoidance and Anxiety. In general Avoidant individuals find discomfort with intimacy and seek independence, whereas Anxious individuals tend to fear rejection and abandonment.
1. I'm afraid that I will lose my partner's love.*
2. I often worry that my partner will not want to stay withme*
3. I often worry that my partner doesn't really love me. *
4. I worry that romantic partners won’t care about me asmuch as I care about them. *
5. I often wish that my partner's feelings for me were asstrong as my feelings for him or her*
6. I worry a lot about my relationships*
7. When my partner is out of sight, I worry that he or shemight become interested in someone else.*
8. When I show my feelings for romantic partners, I'm afraidthey will not feel the same about me. *
9. I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.*
10. My romantic partner makes me doubt myself*
11. I do not often worry about being abandoned*
12. I find that my partner(s) don't want to get as close as Iwould like. *
13. Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings aboutme for no apparent reason. *
14. My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away. *
15. I'm afraid that once a romantic partner gets to know me, heor she won't like who I really am.
16. It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and supportI need from my partner. *
17. I worry that I won't measure up to other people
18. My partner only seems to notice me when I'm angry*
19. I prefer not to show a partner how I feel deep down. *
20. I feel comfortable sharing my private thoughts and feelings with my partner*
21. I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on romanticpartners. *
22. I am very comfortable being close to romantic partners.*
23. I don't feel comfortable opening up to romantic partners*
24. I prefer not to be too close to romantic partners. *
25. I get uncomfortable when a romantic partner wants to bevery close.*
26. I find it relatively easy to get close to my partner*
27. It's not difficult for me to get close to my partner. *
28. I usually discuss my problems and concerns with mypartner*
29. It helps to turn to my romantic partner in times of need. *
30. I tell my partner just about everything*
31. I talk things over with my partner*
32. I am nervous when partners get too close to me. *
33. I feel comfortable depending on romantic parnters*
34. I find it easy to depend on romantic partners. *
35. It's easy for me to be affectionate with my partner. *
36. My partner really understands me and my needs. *
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