The Adult Attachment Program’s Level I Foundational Course
A Deep Exploration into the Attachment Patterns that are Preventing you from Knowing, Being, and Loving your True Authentic Self.
Attachment patterns are learned; often in the first 24 months of life, before you had even developed verbal memory. The level of comfort that you feel when you’re close with someone, the degree that you value and prioritize romantic intimacy in your life, the level of self-esteem and self-confidence that you have, the belief that your needs matter and that you can get those needs met in this lifetime… Even whether you are the one that makes the decision for the group or if you stay back and keep to yourself, they all are directly influenced by your attachment style. And they often exist at a pre-conscious level of thinking; just at the edge of your fingertips. You can see the patterns acting themselves out in our life and in your relationships, but they just seem so hard to change. Insecure attachment may be at the bottom of this.
The Good News: We Can Change It
Join our next group journey to start the process of restructuring your attachment patterns so that you can give and receive more love, improve your self-esteem and self-worth, reduce your stress, and step into your full potential, among many other benefits….
“I can’t quite describe it, but it is as if the base layer of my psyche has greater sturdiness and stability.” -Client in Austin, TX
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What to Expect from this Group
Based on the safety, attunement, and availability of our caregivers during our childhood, we develop what John Bowlby termed “Internal Working Models.” These IWMs, consist of both conscious and subconscious stories, thoughts, feelings, and beliefs about ourselves and the world that either nourish and cultivate healthy self-development or, conversely, interfere with healthy self-development if the caregiving is misattuned. But, there is a solution.
There will be some didactic and learning portions of this group where knowledge will be the focus. But most importantly, we will emphasize ways to identify your own attachment patterns, and to address and resolve the old attachment injuries that may even be having an impact on your behavior right now. So what will we do in this group?
- We will begin by discussing some of the seminal studies in Attachment Theory from Bowlby, Main & Ainsworth, and others to develop a fundamental and foundational understanding of Attachment Theory
- Gain understanding of the “internal working models” of attachment that we develop as children that keep us stuck in old patterns
- Learn about the adult manifestations of the primary attachment patterns; preoccupied, dismissing , and secure, as well as how unresolved trauma or loss can affect attachment status and overall coherence of mind
- We will take a detailed look at the 5 qualities of secure attachment in relationships
- Discover simple evidence-based techniques to Improve Your Relationships and foster healthy self-development and emotional regulation
- You will have the opportunity to break into groups of 2 and 4 to practice relating to others in a secure way using the 5 qualities, while building connections with other people engaged in the same work.
Dates and Times
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Saturday, January 18, 2025
11:30 AM - 1:30 PM PST
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Saturday, February 1, 2025
11:30 AM - 130 PM PST
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Saturday, February 15, 2025
11:30 AM - 1:30 PM PST
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Saturday, March 1, 2025
11:30 AM - 1:30 PM PST
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Pay a one-time fee of $300
Testimonial #12
I had weekly sessions with Dr Zack Bein from August 2023 to September 2024, using the Three Pillars method of Adult Attachment Repair. The work we did together in those 13 months treated issues - anxiety, depression, low energy - that 16 years of therapy using other modalities (CBT, ACT, DBT, IFS and Somatic Experiencing) didn't address.Some of the benefits I've experienced are:
- remission of depression
- less anxiety
- more energy
- confidence to ask for what I need and want
- confidence to express disagreement
- able to show up for and be more comfortable in professional, personal and intimate relationships
- not losing hours or days to being stuck in anxiety & depression
- dramatic improvement in the quality and quantity of my work as an engineer
I wholeheartedly recommend Dr Zack Bein and the Three Pillars method of Adult Attachment Repair.
I've been working with Dr. Zach and his Adult Attachment Program for the past 9 months and my attachment insecurity, sense of self, and overall mental health has been transformed! When I came into the program I had daily attachment anxiety and most of my energy was being used just to keep my anxieties at bay. And without a strong sense of self, I was also struggling to find a sense of meaningful direction in life - to know who I am and what I want. Although I'm not done with the work yet, I can typically calm attachment anxieties or disrupting states of mind quickly. And my sense of self has developed significantly to the point where I have a strong direction in life and I'm excited about the training I'm doing now to help others. I highly recommend Ideal Parent Figures coaching, Dr. Zach, and the Adult Attachment Program!
“The healing has been profound, and I have the deepest gratitude for what is being provided here.” -I.T.
This Course is Ideal for You If…
- You have read popular books (such as Attached) or internet articles about Attachment Theory and want to deepen your understanding
- You are actively working with a therapist or coach on repairing your insecure attachment patterns, and you want to improve your understanding of attachment theory and connect with others who are also doing this work
- You are a clinician and want to start incorporating Adult Attachment and the Ideal Parent Figure method into your practice
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