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Online Training for Levels 1 and 2
The SCIENCE of Relationships Level I and Level II Courses are Up Self Paced Learning Level I Course – The SCIENCE of Relationships 89.99 This is a self-paced course where we use evidence based research in Adult Attachment Theory to transform your life and your relationships. The first course in this series is self-paced and

Attachment Repair is Hard Work, But It’s the Most Important Thing I’ve Ever Done for My Self-Development
Often, clients aren’t ready to do the work necessary to repair their attachment disturbances until they come to see the suffering that Insecure Attachment creates. I started attachment work after an unhealthy relationship with an unavailable woman. The fact that she was unavailable initially helped me feel safe. I thought it would serve to protect

The Preoccupied Attachment Dilemma
No Room for a Mind of One’s Own The Preoccupied Dilemma If you or someone you know could benefit from this work, please contact us, as we have both one-on-one treatment, groups and workshops, and even self-paced courses. The Preoccupied Attachment Style The first of the insecure attachment styles that we are going to discuss

Working with Difficult Mind States
One of the more common questions I get from my clients and students is how to deal with unpleasant emotions and mind states as they arise in meditation and throughout the day. It’s a big question with many right answers. And the answers differ, depending on the context and the client’s meditation skills. So let’s break it down, using doubt as an example of an unpleasant mind state.

Finding Peace Wherever You Are
In times of crisis, it becomes important to develop and draw on our inner strength. The forced pause on all of our lives has created a paradigm shift that calls for an entirely new set of priorities and behavioral maxims. But we know how to do this.

On the Coronavirus: A Mindful Approach
The Coronavirus was thought to start at a “wet market” in Wuhan, China. Wet markets are popular in Asia, where vendors sell live animals by the bulk to consumers to who then kill the animals on their own and sell to the public. It is thought that the virus came from a bat, who may

On Human Suffering
The topic of human suffering has always fascinated me. It wasn’t until about five years ago that I realized that we spend so much of our life’s energy on futile attempts to avoid suffering. We use drugs and alcohol, denial, dishonesty, and dissociation. Sometimes it seems like we spend our entire lives trying to avoid suffering and increase pleasure. What I have come to realize, through different spiritual texts, spiritual practice, and simply my own experience, is that suffering is an inevitable part of human existence. This we cannot change. No amount of running or hiding, and certainly no substance can change that fact. What we can change, through meditation, is our relationship to that suffering. Maybe the fact that painful events exist in life is not by itself a cause for true suffering. It is our constant aversive relationship to that pain that creates true suffering.